BLACK WIDOW:
Black Widow is the most feared. The female’s venom is especially poisonous to people. Despite its reputation, this spider often attempts to escape rather than bite, unless it is guarding an egg mass or if it is cornered and pressed. The male black widow will not bite you. After mating, the female sometimes eats the male (remember, she only has to mate once in her life), earning the name "widow." During the period shortly following mating and laying of eggs, the female black widow can be a little cranky and hungry. After this period (if he lives through it!) the male lives quite comfortably, eating prey captured by the female. The development of his venom sacs stop and become inactive as the male matures, thus making him less of a potential problem than his female counterpart.
When you think of the black widow spider, you may think deadly; dangerous; eats her men and spits them out, right? But what about lonely; survivor; misunderstood? You're probably reading this like, "what is she talking about?" Let me explain.
Yes the female black widow is infamous for mating with the males, collecting their sperm, and then killing them with her venom. if they die they die. but did you know that sometimes there may be a survivor? and if he is strong enough to survive he is well taken care of by the female, he's her new "boo." Sound familiar? let me break it down.
Everyone knows that ONE woman that has no problem at all getting a date, guy, or relationship of any kind. its just a matter of what she WANTS and NEEDS from this encounters. she may have her fair share of one night stands, or sexual partners, and never take them any further then what they were meant to be.like the Black Widow, men know what they are getting into, but they are just so drawn in to her sensuality and sexuality, and her sex feels and is so good that they risk it just to be with her. and like the Black Widow, there is going to be that ONE male that can handle what she working with and is her match. when she finds him she is off the market. she doesn't want anyone else. she makes him her man. he's the one for her. still desirable and wanted by the others, she passes. she's good.
So again, what do you think of when you hear the word Black Widow? be careful how you approach her because you may just get hooked and never get her off your mind, get caught in her web, and not have the strength to fight off the poisonous venom you taste in a night of passion. is it worth it? she is a tuff cookie that has needs and fulfills them, but want that one man to prove that they are not all the same. one that can handle her and is on her level.
Every woman has a little bit of the Black Widow inside of her. some just find that male that can calm them down earlier than others. have you found your mate?
Think about it...
